Friday, 3 March 2017

Mega blog update…
Have had a mega time in all places…. Not sure where I got up to with it all on here – writing in Word to upload when I have net access… suffice to say DC was just great – I love the place….still feel like I could spend a load more holidays there and still love it.
Left on Monday afternoon… was easy to get the train, all very civilised… great big seats with masses of legroom and a lay back chair so that you can sleep reasonably comfortably. They put little tickets above your head with your destination on so that they can wake you up at the right place, so you feel like it will be ok if you fall asleep. The train was late by about 20 minutes… I met some lovely people in the buffet car and chatted for quite a while before I went back to my seat to settle down for a bit of a kip.
I recognised Nancy straight away – we had never met and are 5th cousins – very distant, then. It wasn’t too far to the gorgeous place that they live… it’s near Brooklyn, Michigan and literally right on the side of a lake – Wampler’s Lake… absolutely beautiful. I needed a bit of a nap and set my alarm for 9 to try to catch up a bit.

We had a great few days together – we went down to where the Nobbs family had settled when they first came to the US and went to the grave of John Nobbs and Jane, whose parents are our mutual ancestor. It gave me a new appreciation of the uphill battle these pioneers faced when they arrived here – the land was a frested swamp with malaria rife…but the lure of cheap or free land that would be their own was clearly a big oull and they were prepared to work and work until it was productive. It was most definitely not a case of ‘oh, good free land!’ with no work attached. That first winter in Ohio the Nobbs family lived in a covered wagon as they tried to get their house finished. The harshness of the seasons must have been a shock too – cold like they had never known and heat like they had never known could not have been easy. I take my hat ff to them and to the life they carved out and the determination and courage it must have taken to uproot from that little Gloucestershire community and bring their little family so far – just travelling to Liverpool to get the boat must have been the biggest adventure of their lives. The fact that nearly 30 years later they were still writing to family back home, which is the letter written in 1852 that Great Aunt Em currently has, attests to the closeness they must have still felt to those family members left behind.
So we spent some lovely time there, messing about on the lake and me dossing around in the hammock, snoozing and reading – relaxing in to cottage life – I am uniquely adapted to slothfulness when the opportunity is presented – and all too soon it was time to be hurrying on. I was glad tho that I had rearranged my schedule to have that extra day – 3 days was not enough – we had so much to say! We have earnestly decided on another descendant reunion in 180 years although I sincerely hope to spend more time at Wampler’s lake before then!


So, on to Chicago – we had to get up at stupid o’clock (3.15a.m.) to catch the train – AND then it was nearly an hour late so we went for waffles – what else can a girl do? THEN I tried to get on the wrong one! The train managed to arrive in Chicago another hour behind schedule – I was beginning to wonder if we would be days late by the time we got to LA but it has all been on time since then (I’m on my way to Alberqueque as I write)..


Chicago, Chicago…. What a great city…. I walked around from Union Station to the hostel which has a great position near the lakefront, through massive topwering buildings that dominate the skyline. I took the obligatory bus tour and thought I would melt in the heat – it has been an unusually chilly summer in Chcago this year bit it has perked up of late and it was HOT! Too hot to sit on the top deck of a tour bus but a good way to get an overview of the city. The buildings are magnificent and a mix of all different styles and even heights but it gives the city a vibrant feel. The river winds through the middle of the city, crossed by numerous bridges that give access and then the whole city is topped off by the elevated train that snakes around, above ground, forming weird tunnels over the streets and forming strange light and dark pools, thundering their way to their destinations. This all crowned by the glory of ‘The Lake’, which was shimmering an almost unreal blue the days I was there, and gives a holiday feel to the whole place. There was an air show on the weekend so there was the additional excitement of air force jets screeching and diving, weaving in and out of the buildings, looking for all the world like they were too close for comfort.
I took a bike out along the lakefront trail on the Saturday afternoon and the beaches were tightly packed with people enjoying the water, the sunshine and the air show. I will never again imagine beaches at home to be packed – these were literally cheek by jowel. Saturday morning I took a walking tour from the hostekl with a volunteer who told us he wasn;t go to give us the history of each and evey building and then proceeded to do just that! After we all went back for a cold glass of lemonade – well, that powdered stuff that passes fpr lemonade – and biscuits and it was a good chance to chat to people. I made an arrangement to meet up with some of them for a real Chiacgo pizza that evening. We went to a recommeneded place and the pizza was good – if a little over large, even for the young lads in the party who had hearty appetites. Hat made the evening tho was the waitress who was a real carde – she started off by thinking that Chris, a lad from Merthyr, wasn;t even speaking English! Well, maybe he wasn’t – so they had a charade about draught and bottled beer…the service was dreadful, but the food was good and the company was excellent. We walked down to the lakeside for the fireworks – there was an open air Beethoven concert we wanted to catch but we stopped before that at an open air swing dance o listen for a while, by which time the classical concert was finished.
The fireworks didn’t start until 10.30 in the event – during which time I discouraged Chris from mooning to passing boats (you can take the boy out of Merthyr etc…)…
Sunday morning I went up the Sears Sky Deck with Jess and Charlie (big shout out, girls!) and was so not able to go out onto the clear, perspex decks that hang out of the 103rd floor! The view was amazing tho and had to be done! We wandered over to The Bean near the art Institute – Chicago does street art better than anywhere I have ever been and spent a lot of time marvelling at the many ways it reflected. Then it was time for me to assemble myself for the train station….en route the handle on my suitcase fell off, leaving me feel like part of a Rhod Gilbert sketch – look it up on Youtube! – not quite sure to do with the separated handle – so chucked it. Makes moving my stuff more difficult but I can still manage thanks to the bungee cord I got from Ron – how did life happen without bungees?
Uneventful trip to Kansas, which summed up the whole time in Kansas – was raining when I go there, storming when I woke up and when I hired the car to go out to Independence there was a severe weather warning and a get off the roads message – so I returned the car to Hertz and wondered what to do – soon found out there was little to do in wet town – went to the pictures and saw Julie and Julia which I enjoyed and then looked in vain for a book shop – had fnished dawn French and couldn’t face the 18 hors to my next stop without a book – NO shops in downtown Kansas! ‘None, not a sausage, bugger all’ to quote Monty Python!

Wednesday, 21 April 2010

Still useless after all these years...or words to that sort of song...




So, here we are mid, well end of April and life has changed for the better in oh so many ways..by this time next month - or thereabouts, I will be Mrs John Rider and am excited by that thought! It has been such an exciting time and I want to record it, well it won't be for our posterity exactly but y'know!
I met John last November at a Singles dinner that was hosted by a mutual acquaintance - his friend, Michael who will always want all the credit for this marriage anyway! I only went because it was Indian food and I was assured it would be good - and it was - have you tried to get decent Indian food in the US??..not easy, but I digress...John only went (he hates Indian food) because Michael threatened to let his tyres down if he didn't...John broke his heel/ankle in many places in the late summer and was out of action for months and Michael clearly thought he needed to get out into the real world...so, I thought he was with the woman he was sat next to, we chatted..I thought it was tacky that he tried to get my phone number when I thought he was with this other woman..they did travel there together, mind you...I don't know! Anyway, he lost my number, I took his card, put it safely in my glasses case and the following week lost the glasses case at a party in Castaic...I blame Debra Parker for that - just because I have to blame someone and she was with me...
Anyway, he contacted Michael and extracted my phone number, he phoned me, we went out, had a good time and have now decided to spend forever together, it took me a while (at least a week) to see how special he was...it's all been like I've known him forever and our spirits recognised that in each other.. I love how I feel about him (get your sick buckets ready now...) Tom made a comment about whether I was 51 or 16 and I feel 16 in lots of ways, I never expected to feel like this ever again to be honest... and it's wonderful.I have not had a moment's doubt that this is the right decision - there has been no agonising over it despite the upheaval it will be to get him over to the UK....In fact I may write a novella about that when his visa is through...50 ways to prove you're American..none of them acceptable to the Passport Office!!!!!!
We are getting married May 21 in the Los Angeles Temple and then we are moving to live in the UK once my Fulbright year is over.I have got a return flight for July 2nd so I can go to Tom's graduation...hopefully his visa will be through by then and that will be the start of our new life in Wales. I have such mixed feelings about this year coming to a close...it has been a real challenge but so much fun - I have had a break from all the normal things that go on in my life and learned what I already knew in many ways about the importance of home and family and friends and having a sense of place. I can't wait to share that with John, for my friends to meet him..it has been strange to think that the only person from home who knows him is Deb.... however, all his firends tell me constantly what a great bloke he is - so others may have to take their words for it...as for me, I knows it, I feels it. Unlike Nessa I am not going for gothic look, neither will my Welsh Dragon tattoo will not be on show that day!(I;ve used up all the transfers Sue Griff and I had!) Neither will I be pouring myself into any frothy meringues (a la 4 weddings stylee. It is all going to be very nice and hopefully tasteful and sunny in my friends' Troy and Jim's back garden for the ring ceremony and reception...
Once again, I am going to close this epic episode with a commitment to keep it up to date...but I am terminally useless... I will try to post wedding pics tho...
Meanwhile here are some of us trotting round Utah and California!!!

Saturday, 9 January 2010

Home again, home again...sort of

Left Auckland Saturday evening and by the magic of time travel and the International Date Line arrived in LA before I had even left NZ! How cool is that...I hated leaving, cried a bucket of tears over the Pacific and now back 'home' in LA! Looking a case full of junk that I can't be bothered to unpack...well, it;s not junk exactly - just a few clothes and a few gifts..
Gary picked me up at the airport and dropped me off - have to say I got through Immigration and Customs amazingly quickly and my case was first off the luggage carousel.
Flight was uneventful altho delayed 2 hours in Sydney due to problems with some seats..they were asking for volunteers for bumping...was much tempted, especially after my last minute drama to secure an entry authorisation for Australia..which I then found out I didnt need for transitting...but since I do have one, I'm anxious to use it...however common sense prevailed and to be honest, I couldn't imagine going to work in the morning!!!!!!
Have trawled through my mail and thrilled to find I have medical benefits now sorted out - can't wait to send them my $1500 credit card bill for the root canal...that will pay for my flight to NZ this summer...although dismayed to find that the little Ford KA I bought for Nancy to use in the UK is developing problems...fingers crossed that it won't be too expensive to sort out...if it's not one thing, it's another(or your mother!) talking of whom, she turned 86 this week...Tom popped in tot ake her out...she was oblivious of the fact it was her birthday.We phoned from NZ and reminded her that it was and Dylan was highly entertained by the fact she told him numerous times it was her birthday and she thought she was 21 - there's nothing wrong with her sence of humour for sure!
So glad church is at midday tomorrow!!! Not sure how long into the year that euphoria will last...feel it's only my travel fatigue that makes it so attractive right now! Rightly or wrongly I always feel that it's best to be able to get up and get church done with...fully aware of the fact I will waste the mornings and then feel robbed wehn I get home at 4pm(that because I talk a lot after church!!!)

Thursday, 7 January 2010

In my defence, I have been busy.....

Even my niece has been asking me why I'm not keeping up to date with the blog.... I'm just too busy to keep up to date but there is a lull this evening, altho I do have a great book calling me, calling me...
I'm in New Zealand right now...the very place I want to be, which is how I came to be in LA! The sun is shining, the sky is blue.... I am loving being with the family, I can't get enough of the kids...they may be sick of me grabbing them for cwtches all the time!
Since I last wrote....I had a great weekend with Deb in DC.... we went Amnish chasing - a bit like storm chasing only more accessible since the people were only in horse and carts! We had a blast!It WAS way too far to go for a weekend but I would do it again...I'm only here for such a short time, i want to make the most of it!
I went up to Sacramento for Thanksgiving with Jules and Dennis which was a lot of fun altho it was in the middle of my toothache trauma and that rather spoiled things. We had a great Thanksgiving dinner at Dennis's daughter's and we went to see gold rush towns...once again I was treated to a fantastic array of Autumnal colours so I feel well blessed in that area.
I'm running through my memory banks now to try to justify my claim to have been busy!
I did go out with a bunch of people from Church for a great Indian meal in Pasadena...the best I have had since I got to the US by a long way... I also went to somewhere with Gary and some of the other people I work with for Shanghai Chinese food and that was amazing - Gary knows where there is good food to be had and after all if you want to eat good Chinese go with a Chinese person! On the food theme, I also had some colleagues over for food at the house and cooked food with funny names, as requested ...it all turned out ok - phew! - toad in the hole can be temperamental at the best of times, knickerbocker glories are easy enough tho - I plan to invite them back soon so I can at least feel like the person at the centre of things like at home! Funny feeling!
December, while flying by was crappy in school terms...no Christmas to speak of and I really missed it...we just sang 2 songs at a 'Winter programme'... next year I am going to go totally overboard with the Christmas thing altho I did learn some great ideas for crafts! Have to say I was totally spoiled by the class with a very generous American Express gift card which I spent promptly on Cirque de Soleil tickets in Vegas and Ugg boots!
My tooth trauma took over my life for a while until I finally had a root canal and in fact am still waiting for the treatment to be finished...it has cost a fortune and made me ever grateful for the NHS(God bless Nye Bevan, I say!) I stand amazed at the whole health service in the US and cannot for the life of me understand why universal access to health care doesn't figure in some people's agendas...anyway, i will leave that alone as I can feel me getting my soap box out!

Tom came over for Christmas...I could hardly wait to get him here and we had a good time (I think we did anyway ...ask Tom!)We went to Vegas, shopped until we dropped, ate at some good and not so good places...went to Santa Monica, had a grand day out at Disneyland, celebrated Christmas with friends and neighbours and before we knew it, it was time to leave...me for warmer climes and he for the snow and ice that has been the feature of the British winter this year.
Oh, one yukky thing was I got a traffic ticket...except it came of course in Nancy's name - no-one wanted to discuss it with me because it wasn't 'my' ticket...I just wanted to pay it and get it over with...so that has had to go over to her to be signed and then we'll see what happens next...

Went to some cool Christmas things with my friend Debra - we went to see a live production of A Christmas Carol in Glendale one Sat afternoon then went to dinner with a lovely group of people that Debra knew - we also went to Irvine to a Break the Fast dinner, followed by the Christmas devotional and a lovely Christmas programme...trying to get the Christmas spirit...

Oh, spent a great Sunday with Alex Hathaway and her family too, who don't live too far away....we must do that again soon!

Have still kept up going to the Temple each week and enjoying it...have a calling at church now - teaching the Sunbeams (3 year olds) which I can't wait to start...

So the New Year beckons and I am looking forward to it in lots of ways.... plan to go whale watching one weekend, and to tackle my long list of things to do around LA which is ever burgeoning and I never seem to have time to get to... Didn't make resolutions...just too many things to tackle in my life!
So that's a quick round up of some events. I'm sure there were more... Tom did have a walk on role in 'Community' when we went to watch it filmed at Paramount...
NZ has been a blast and I am seriously considering coming back when I have finished school as the kids have a fortnight off in July and I could come then and have the time with them...depends on what else happens...I may get a better offer!!LOL I wish!

Friday, 6 November 2009

rubbish, pants, sbwriel, hopeless and a lot of other adjectives!

So, spurred on by Nell actually asking what had happened to my blog and me realising that I was certifiably hopeless at keeping it..what can I say - I am a numpty!...and me knowing from hasrsh experience that i will truly regret not having a good record from this time in my life, I would like to take a pledge of allegiance(been in the US too long!) to my blog but know that would be highly suspect and interfere with my integrity and, oo-er missus, I don't want to do that..so I think, to myself, I will do better in the future - I even bought a write in journal in Nashville but only because it had quotes from Alice in Wonderland in it! and it has very little in it so far!

I am doing fine - I have been so lucky - no, blessed with the setup I have found myself in - I did tell Heavenly Father that if I had to do this,(and it seemed I did have to..... I needed to be a bit looked after - and I have been - the school is really lovely, very community minded and a few families from my ward attend there, as well as some other LDS families from the other stake ...I also have an LDS colleague which is a novelty and we go to the temple together after school every Wednesday - how spoiled is that? I can see the temple from my back garden - it takes me about half hour or so to walk. I love being so close and feel that it is a blessing. The people i work with have been friendly and helpful and so have the parents - one family had me over for dinner last sat night to go trick or treating with them, which was fab as they ahd little kids and that's one of the things i miss is those little kids in my life in Cardiff - It's a very different school culture from the one I am used in school in the UK and at first I was rather intimidated by it but now I find it's rather nice to be part of a community - I haven't encountered any of the 'power parenting' I thought may happen if the parents were too friendly - it's all been really positive!!! I am teaching grade 4 so the kids are about 9 turning 10 - they don't have such clear date cut offs for grades here so it is a fairly wide age range - a good thing for some kids who would have been the very youngest in their 'real' grade and have benefitted from being in the next grade - I can think of loads of kids I've taught who would have benefitted from being held back for a year .... the school is in a nice area - not too posh but nice and many of the children are in graduate student families so are very academic - lots of Korean and Chinese families.... my kids and their families come from all over the globe - Bosnia, Russia, Israel, Brazil, Phillipines, Nicaragua, Korea, China, Mexico as well as americans! They are like kids every where really! I sometimes wonder of they have any clue what i am saying and I occasionally hear a little echo as someone tries out their british accent or british words
I live about 20 mins walk from school and walk or cycle most days - I do now have a car but it takes longer to drive than to cycle because I cut through a park to cycle and it's along way round! I am one of the few cyclists/walkers it seems to me - the whole city is in love with their cars! Reliable weather helps too!
The neighbourhood is very friendly too and a few of the neighbours have been really welcoming and had me over for dinner - my direct across the street one invited me to their Yom Kippur dinner which was really lovely - she and I have been to the pictures or I go over there and watch a film (she has this film dowload thing on her telly!...whereas i don't have a telly!)

The ward is great too - it is really big but very friendly and because I didn't have a car when I first got here I got to know lots of people who felt I had to have a lift rather than walk places! One of my new friends and I are going to a concert at walt disney concert hall soon... another family live close by and we have done some craft things together, someone else takes me to farmers markets on sat mornings when I am in town and not otherwise engaged and i have done some babysiting - the young couples love me because I don't charge!

It was fab to see Deb and Lynne Barry at conference - I also caught up with julia and Dennis and Carly's twin sisters! Mini Welsh reunion - I know Luc was there too - just missed him tho - it was wonderful to go to general Conference and BE THERE! I wasn;t quite prepared for how mcuh that would mean to me....hope to get there again in April


I am meeting up with Deb next weekend in Washington DC(long way to go for a weekend, i know!!!) and we are also meeting up with Sarah Elliott as her husband is now at the LDS university in Virginia - Deb has work in DC so I am staying at her hotel and we are going to Amish country on the saturday...she is bringing much needed suppiles - like blu tac! funny the things you can't get hold of!
I have done loads of travelling - of course there was my epic train journey across America which I am glad to have done but will be a long time before I get on a train again !

My mentor teacher from my school, Gary,- who, I should say, has been an absolute star - nothing is too much trouble for him and as many of you know I am a heap of trouble! - and I went to Nashville for a conference a couple of weeks ago and had a brilliant time - we were at the university there which was very stately looking - old , well, you know American old! For some reason in Nashville there is an exact replica of the Greek parthenon - which the bloke on the plane was earnestly telling us was better than the original - yeah, right - we also got to go to a real country music dive place and we went line dancing - well, it had to be done!!!! It was great to meet up with the other UK teachers and hear of their adventures and touch base with them - the people who organise this programme work really hard top make sure we are all as successful as possible.(unpaid plug for our friends at AED!)..not necessarily an easy task when we are all at such different schools and communities and having such different experiences. I think having the ready made church community has definitely helped me to settle in but I have been really lucky with the other people I have met - I just say yes to everything! I have joined Nancy's(my exchange partner) book club and met a lovely group of bright intelligent women (just like our book club!) I feel bad that our book club has collapsed a bit because I know Nancy would have liked to have joined it.
On the Nashville trip I also met up with the Chadwicks and stayed with them and that was so good to see them again and met up with one of the girls who used to live with me in manchester when she was on a mission - long time ago now!
I am going to Northern california to stay with Julia and Dennis for Thanksgiving and we are going to go to .....I think it's Yosemite park but it could be Lake Tahoe - I can't recall what we decided on!
I am off to New Zealand to stay with the Wilkies and especially to see the KiddlyWilkies as Tom leaves after Christmas - he arrives Dec 18 and leaves 28th(I leave an hour later)...we are off to Vegas, baby, for a few days when he is here...I am looking forward to showing him around and having him meet some of the great people here...maybe spend part of Christmas day on the beach....
Spent yesterday doing a bit of Guy Fawkes stuff - we made guys - my classroom was funny this morning as many of the children hadn't finished so there were lots of headless corpses! great fun!
So, so far, so good! I miss home from time to time,...the endless sunshine makes up for it somewhat and the knowledge that this isn't forever(it isn't, is it??????), altho I hadn't realised how much I enjoy just being able to rely on the weather being pleasant. I take the kids out every morning under a shade structure for a 20 minute morning meeting, knowing that we will always be able to do it, just about! couldn't do that at home!
We had a top time at the school hallowe'en hurrah which was like a Christmas Fayre but for hallowe'en - dressed up as an ostrich...see the photos on Facebook!
Every day there are lots of little things that amuse me, enrich me and make me think...sometimes about what I have and soemtimes about what i don;t have....getting a bit philosophical now - I missed the smell of gunpowder this morning, the day after Guy Fawkes night, you know that smell that lingers in the air??? I'll miss the atmosphere in Cardiff tomorrow for the rugby



- I feel really blessed to be here and have this experience - if I HAVE to be somewhere then this a great place to be -


Well, that's it, hope it hasn't bored the pants off you!



Maybe if I can just discipline myself a bit to wrrite each few days I will have it licked! Look on FB for photos!

Monday, 7 September 2009

Striking out on my own....

SO, as Jules and Dennis left on the Saturday, I considered my position... all alone in a city bigger than my whole native land, knowing just about no-one - well, make that no-one and thousands of miles from home - it was not a good feeling, I can tell you! I quickly consulted my journal which I had brought for just such an occasion to remind myself why I was here...
I had a dinner invitation for that evening with the couple across the street and they had invited their immediate neighbours - it was a lovely evening and I chided myslef for my earlier feelings!! Then there was church the next day to look forward to...
The ward(congregation) seemed to number about 200 or so - very much larger than home! They meet in a chapel on the temple site and it is big - I felt a bit at home as they have a balcony like you get in old Welsh chapels...reminded me of going to Merchant's Hill Baptist in Pontypool as a very young child with my Great Uncle Bill, who used to pass me peppermints! People were friendly and welcoming and one lady, Alysa, offered me a lift home - she lives abou a 5 minute walk away and was telling me how many ward members live close by. I'm sure the church thing will all fit into place over the coming weeks. This Sunday (5 Sept) Alysa invited me to a block party next weekend - I have no idea what it is but accepted the invitation graciously. This week I met a lot more people, remembered some people's names, even and met a girl who is applying for the Fulbright for next year too...there is a Relief Society social on Thursday evening so that's another opportunity to meet people. It feels like I am being kept pretty busy, doesn't it!?

And so to school.... which after all is the main reason I am here - it was easy to lose sight of some of that over the course of the train trip and my immediate arrival. I rang the principal, Sharon and made an arrangement to go into school. I walked over (so I would know the way!!!) and was pleased to find it took less than 20 minutes - it appears to be much longer when you drive because you have to drive around, walking you take a short cut! hurrah for walking. I think my collagues all think I am balmy and some think it is way too far to walk...I may feel like that after a hard day when it is hot! I had lots of offers of lifts and told them I may well ask for a lift home. Sharon showed me to my classroom , introduced m,e to my colleagues - Gary and Barry - sound like and they act like a double act - they have been teaching Grade 4 together for about 9 years so they know what's what. gary has the adjoining classroom in what they uniquely term a 'bungalow' - it is lovely, light and spacious and has air con! I am still lamenting the lack of an electronic interactive whiteboard but will manage - will be interesting to see how I get by - I have no option soooo... although I do have a great little contraption that is a data projector with a camera arm that I can put a book under and project onto the board and I can hook up my lap top (school issue - no CD drive and no internet access!) All part of the fun..
The classroom was literally all packed away at the end of term so I spent last week unpacking it, finding what I needed, asking Gary a million questions which he patiently answered and getting set for the off - which happens on Wedsnesday officially when the kids arrive. Oh, and cleaning the desks and surfaces - I will miss Leanne my ace cleaner from last year at Severn who EVERY day cleaned the floor, the carpet, the sink and the desk tops! I have stocked up on J cloths and aim to bribe the kids into cleaning. I went to the most amazing school supply shop - where I could have bought a LOT of stuff but restrained myself... i did buy a great bag of assorted buttons for my 'marble jar'. At home, if a child does something good, I tell them to put a marble in the jar, when the jar is full, the whole class chooses a treat of some kind - we have done all sorts of things - tie dye t shirts, extra play time, ice cream sundaes, watched a bit of a video, even had a fashion show! However, marbles are expensive and buttons were cheaper so I have a great little tin and we will have a button tin!
I have sorted out all the text books (a mountain of them) for each child to have one each, along with consumable books that I suppose we would call work books for Maths and 'Language Arts' (literacy) and Social Studies - which will take the sting out of having to teach Californian history -about which I know very little, but then when I move year groups at home I usually know nothing either.. some would say that is a position I continue to be in after teaching the year group! I have spent today getting some other things ready - like the cards for my famous Times Tables running game(should have brought them!) alphabets for the kids to try to pep up spelling lessons - yuck - it doesn't look any better here than home - just the usual really... Gary has been great in supplying lots of the stuff for next week - and we will really only get going on the curriculum on Friday. The school building itself seems really odd to me but then it so much outdoors here that I am still amazed that , for example, their canteen area is outdoors - I wonder how long it will be before I realise how reliable the weather truly is - anyway, there is no real entrance hall to the school just a row of doors leading into ofices and then the classrooms are clustered around a central courtyard, then more portables have been added as the need has arisen - there is loads of open spaces, volleyball and basketball areas, playground equipment, shady spots, seating, grass - it is a lovely environment that is a massive contrast to life at Severn Road where we really do lack space in general. That's the main difference in life here in the US generally tho is the idea of space - homes are spacious even when not large and ostentatious ...just a feeling of openness in general.

I had a friend stay last night who is also a Fulbrighter - she is up in Santa Barbara, she had a friend staying with her from Texas - we went off to Hollywood and did the tacky tourist stuff, then they went off this morning and did the tourist bus.
This evening I went to the pictures to see Amreeka which was a very moving film about a family from Palestine moving to the US - very thought provoking and probably very true to life... made me a bit teary....see it if you can - check it out at Chapter in Cardiff, I would think.
So that's me brought up to date -more or less
I did make it to the temple again this past week to keep my promise to me, I had lunch with my friend Bryn at Santa Monica - caught the bus for 75 cents - so cheap and easy! - lunch was very delicious, the Pier was very tacky - we loved it! Should have bought snow globes! I ate at various places with the people I work with who love to eat out! I went to bar bq at a colleagues on Tuesday and met more of my work colleagues. I went to the equivalent of County Hall to sort out my paperwork and was promised a return phone call on Thursday to sort that all out, which suprise, surprise did not come - see you can change continents but bureaucracy still twists you in knots! I tried to open a bank account and was told that I needed a social secuirty number which I know not to be the case as I know people do not have to have any residency or visa stuff to have an account but think I will have to cave on this matter and go and get one! I pondered why I have not lost any weight when I have been walking everywhere and walking the dog twice a day - the answer seemed to be staring back at me from the cinnamon bun I was scoffing and the number of Cold Stone ice creams I have consumed.
And tomorrow it all begins for real, wish me luck!

How rubbish am I at doing this??

Please don't answer that question, I already feel bad enough about myself!
So since New Mexico I have spent some time in Flagstaff, seen the Grand Canyon (another tick on the Bucket List!) and finally arrived in LA - which I was more than ready to do to be honest.

Nancy's friend, Holly, met me at Union Station and the next part of the adventure began...
First to the house - it as all very mind boggling - the traffic was bonkers and I began to feel like I would never venture on to the freeway - a feeling I still hold to be honest. Arriving at the house, i met my new house mate - Zoe, the dog....I know, I know, we were told not to exchange pets but this felt like it would be ok! Not as i entered the house and she stood barking at me tho - however, she does have a tendency to wag her tail as she barks which, y'know makes you realise she is really not very fierce! Holly showed me over the house, took me to Trader Joe's to do some shopping which was all a bit of a blur as on my last night on the train I didn;t manage to get a double seat to myself and the woman next to me snored all night - not noisily - but of course, it was RIGHT IN MY EAR!!!! So I was absolutely shattered. I bought absurd things at the shop because I had no clue what I needed or what I wanted or what I recognised and everything was in large packs - they don't seem to do 'one person' sizes in that shop... then when I got back I allowed myself a few hours nap, took the dog around the neighbour hood and started to unpack. Unfortunately my get and go, such as it was had got up and gone and I had no inclination to unpack...surveying it all and I wondered why I had thought it was all so necessary when it went into the cases just a few short weeks before. Even now 2 weeks on, I think I packed way too many clothes and have started a drawer of stuff for Tom to take back with him at Christmas. Maybe once I begin to work I will feel differently...

So, that evening Aug 24th - Julia and Dennis arrived from Northern California - and over the next few days we set about orientating me and getting in supplies, making sure I knew how to get to school, the shops and church and having some fun too.
We spent some time on the beach at Venice Beach watching a very weird world go by, we drove up the Pacific coast highway to Malibu to rubber neck at the houses and look out for the rich and famous (none were spotted), we took a bus tour on one of the open top buses - we got on the first bus of the day and of on the last one - it was exhausting but fun - we walked down the boulevard with all the star's names on, hung out at LA Farmer's Market and had lunch and saw lots of LA...still disappointed in our search for 'faces'! We also went to the LA temple and enjoyed that. I am just a half hour walk from it and can see it each day on my walk to work and back - it's hard to miss it, it dominates the skyline and is lit up each evening. I smile to myself and sing the primary song 'I love to see the temple'...feel very fortunate to be so close and promise I will be there!